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Falling in love can feel exciting, even exhilarating. But over time, these feelings may change to something more mellow or calm. This doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong with your relationship.

Romantic love is a key goal for many people. Whether you’ve been in love before or have yet to fall in love for the first time, you might think of this love as the pinnacle of romantic experiences — perhaps even the pinnacle of life experiences.

But over time, you might find yourself thinking “I love them” instead of “I’m in love with them.” Loving someone instead of feeling “in love” with them simply illustrates how feelings of love evolve over the course of a relationship, especially a long-term relationship.

What it’s like to be in love
Being in love generally refers to those intense feelings that take over at the start of a relationship.

These include:

infatuation
happiness
excitement and nervousness
sexual attraction and lust
Here’s what these feelings might look like in action.

You feel charged and euphoric around them
It may not seem like it, but being in love is a somewhat scientific process. Falling in love involves a lot of hormones, which can supercharge your feelings and make them wildly fluctuate.

When you’re around the person you love, increases in dopamine and norepinephrine lead to feelings of:

pleasure
giddiness
nervous excitement
euphoria
Decreases in serotonin can fuel feelings of infatuation.

Sex hormones, such as testosterone and estrogen, also play a part by boosting libido and leading to feelings of lust.

Other key hormones, such as oxytocin and vasopressin, help cement your attraction by promoting trust, empathy, and other factors of long-term attachment.

You can’t wait to see them again — even when they’ve just left
Even after spending all day with your partner, you still feel lonesome when they leave. You wonder what they’re doing and whether they’re thinking about you. Maybe you already have plans to meet the next day, but you still wonder how you’ll manage until you see them again.

This is common when you’re in love. And while it’s certainly healthy to spend some time away from each other, that doesn’t mean you enjoy doing so.

If you can’t stop thinking about them even when you’re apart, you’re most likely enjoying that agonizing bliss of being in love.

Everything feels exciting and new
Being in love can change the way you see things. Even everyday activities like going to the grocery store can become more enjoyable.

You might also look at other things with new eyes. Many people in love feel more willing to try new things, or things they previously didn’t care for, simply because their partner enjoys them.

There’s nothing wrong with trying new things. In fact, openness to new experiences is a great trait to have. But it’s pretty common to feel swayed by a partner’s interests, so make sure you don’t feel pressured to go along with things you really don’t want to do.

You always make time for them
Typically, being in love with someone means you want to spend as much time with them as possible. Even if you’re busy, you probably find yourself arranging your schedule to see your partner.

This might also involve a desire to get to know more about them by exploring their interests. When love is mutual, they’ll probably feel the same way about you and want to spend just as much time getting to know your interests.

This is all pretty normal. It’s also common, however, for people in love to briefly “forget” about their friends.

Try to remember to spend time with your friends, too, instead of letting love completely sweep you away.

You don’t mind making sacrifices for them
In the first rush of being in love, you might feel completely dedicated to your partner, ready to do anything and everything to help them through a tough spot or even just make their lives a little easier.

Empathy and your fast-growing attachment can fuel your desire to be there for them and help them however possible. But the hormones involved in love can sometimes affect how you make decisions.

ক্লাসের এক ছাত্র দু্ষ্টুমি করে কাগজে "I’m stupid" লিখে একজন ছাত্রের পেছন লাগিয়ে দিয়ে অন্যান্যকে নিষেধ করলো-আর কাউকে না বলতে। সবাই ছেলেটিকে নিয়ে হাসাহাসি করছে। কিছুক্ষণের মাঝে অংক স্যার ক্লাসে এসে নির্দেশ দিলেন- জটিল একটা অংকের সমাধান করতে। একটা ছেলে হাত ওঠালো। স্যার বললেন- বোর্ডে এসো।
ছেলেটি যখন বোর্ডের দিকে হেঁটে যাচ্ছে। তখন হাসাহাসি আরো বাড়ে। কিন্তু সে বুঝতে পারছেনা। এতো হাসির কারণ কি। সে বোর্ডে গিয়ে অংকটির সমাধান করলো। স্যার এবার তার পেছন থেকে স্টুপিড লেখা লেভেলটি তোলে নিয়ে বললেন- তুমি হয়তো জানোনা- তোমার কোনো বন্ধু তোমার শার্টের পেছনে স্টুপিড লিখে দিয়েছে। আর, এ জন্যই তোমাকে নিয়ে সবাই এতো হাসিতামাশা করছে। যাও, তুমি আসনে গিয়ে বসো। আমি তোমাদের কাউকে শাস্তি দিবোনা। বরং তোমাদের সাথে দুটি জিনিস শেয়ার করবো।
এক) বইয়ের কভার দেখে যেমন বই বুঝা যায়না। ঠিক তেমনি লেভেল দেখেই আসল জিনিস চেনা যায়না। জীবনের নানা ক্ষেত্রে একে অন্যকে দমিয়ে রাখার জন্য নানা রকমের লেভেল সেঁটে দেয়। ওরা তোমার পেছনে স্টুপিড লিখে রেখেছে -সেটা যদি তুমি বুঝতে পারতে আর বুঝে তার গুরুত্ব দিয়ে-হীনমন্যতায় ভুগতে- তবে তুমি সবার সামনে বোর্ডে এসে অংকের সমাধান করতে পারতে না। তাই, মানুষের দেয়া এইসব লেভেল সব সময় প্রত্যাখ্যান করেই চলতে হয়। মনে রেখো- মধুর শিশিতে বিষের লেভেল লাগিয়ে দিলে মানুষ বিভ্রান্ত হয়। কিন্তু মধুর গুনাবলীর তাতে কোনো পরিবর্তন হয়না। ওরা তোমাকে নিয়ে হাসি তামাশা করছে। আমি তোমাকে দাঁড়িয়ে শ্রদ্ধা জানাচ্ছি।
দুই) জীবনে অনেক রয়েল ফ্রেন্ড পাবে, কিন্তু লয়েল ফ্রেন্ড খুবই বিরল। তোমার যদি লয়েল ফ্রেন্ড থাকতো তবে তোমাকে এসে বলতো। অথবা না বলেই- তোমার পেছন থেকে স্টুপিড লেখা লেভেলটি তুলে নিতো। তাই, জীবনে তোমার কতজন রয়েল বন্ধু থাকবে সেটা ম্যাটার না। বরং, তোমার কয়জন লয়েল বন্ধু থাকবে সেটাই সবচেয়ে বড় ম্যাটার। # #

বন্ধু মানে “I’M HAPPY FOR YOUR SUCCESS” নয়, বন্ধু মানে “TREAT দিবি কবে”?বন্ধু মানে “ARE YOU COMING WITH US”? নয়, বন্ধু মানে “ভাব মারিসনা চুপচাপ চল”

I’m তো অবাক😁আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒 !!🙂💔😁কারন আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!🙂💔😁যেহেতু আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!🙂💔😁তাই আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!🙂💔😁সে জন্যই আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!🙂😁 😁সুতরাং আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!🙂😁অথএব,আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!😁😁😁পরিশেষ আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!🙂💔💔😁 সত্যিই আমি 𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑙𝑒!!😅💔💔

One day
1 Comment / English Love Stories / By admin / September 10, 2024
I don’t know where to start because even I don’t know when I fall for you ….
For me you will be the best part of my life

❤️
At first you are one who I hates most later on your are the one who I loved most…..
I don’t think so you remember or not but I remember every small thing about you and every moment between us even it’s worse ….
On the day you proposed I’m most confused person in the world. I think I don’t like you so I rejected you.
AFTER I DON’T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO ME………
I don’t like you but why I am seeing you secretly
I don’t like you but why I even consider matching outfits
I don’t like you but why I am feeling sad if you are talking with another girl
I don’t like you but why I am curious to see you if you are not around for some time
I don’t like you but why I am blushing when my friends teasing me with your name
I don’t like you but why I am thinking of you whole night
I don’t like you but why I am waiting for you….
I don’t like you but why I am changing my opinion to study in other colleges..
BECAUSE
I THINK I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU..
I don’t know how, where and why but I can’t stop my heart falling for you day by day..
But I can’t accept your proposal because I don’t think you still love me but I started loving you..
Maybe on
On one day we will be friends
May be
On one day we will be close to each other
May be
On one day you will be mine
To say these three magical words I am also waiting
BUT
I don’t think it will happen

😔
#aface1

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I don’t follow the crowd, I lead my own way.
Silence isn’t weakness, it’s power in disguise.
I’m not perfect — just real.
Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.
Loyalty is rare, and I value it more than attention.
Keep your fake vibes away — I’m built different.

#attitude #realme #nofilter #bossvibes


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I don’t follow the crowd, I lead my own way.
Silence isn’t weakness, it’s power in disguise.
I’m not perfect — just real.
Don’t mistake my kindness for weakness.
Loyalty is rare, and I value it more than attention.
Keep your fake vibes away — I’m built different.

#attitude #realme #nofilter #bossvibes


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🤙

"I am who I am — like it or leave it. I’m not here to impress anyone."

given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.


given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.

given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.


given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.
given her what she came for.

She now carried it within her.

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Abdur Rohim
Abdur Rohim
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Title: The Island of Forgotten Dreams

A warm wind swept across the deck as Elira opened her eyes. The sea sparkled under the morning sun, stretching endlessly in every direction. She had spent ten days on this small sailboat, guided by nothing but an old map and the last words her grandfather had whispered before he died: "Find the Island of Forgotten Dreams."

To most, it was a myth — a tale for children, a bedtime story to comfort broken hearts. But to Elira, it was the only thing that made sense anymore. Life in the city had left her hollow. Her job, her apartment, her so-called friends — they all felt like shadows of a life she never truly wanted. So she left it behind. All of it.

On the eleventh morning, just as the sky was beginning to turn lavender with the rise of the sun, Elira saw it. A faint outline on the horizon. As she drew closer, the island came into focus — tall cliffs hugged by lush green forests, white sands kissed by turquoise waves, and the sound of a thousand birds calling her home.

She anchored the boat and stepped onto the beach. The sand was warm and soft, like flour. Strange flowers bloomed in colors she couldn’t name. And in the distance, she saw something even stranger: a path, carefully carved, leading into the forest. It was too deliberate to be natural.

As Elira followed the path, memories began to rise in her mind. Not just hers — but memories that felt ancient, shared, as if the island itself whispered them into her bones. A child’s laughter. A song long forgotten. A tear that never fell. Every step forward felt like walking deeper into her own soul.

At the heart of the island stood a stone archway, overgrown with ivy. Words were etched across its surface in a language she didn’t recognize, yet somehow understood: “Here live the dreams the world forgot.”

Beyond the archway, the island transformed. Trees glowed with bioluminescent light, and the air shimmered like stardust. And there, sitting beneath a tree, was a boy — no older than twelve — drawing pictures in the dirt.

He looked up at her. “You finally came,” he said.

Elira blinked. “Do I know you?”

“I’m the dream you left behind,” he said. “When you chose to grow up, you forgot me. But I waited.”

Tears welled up in her eyes. She remembered now — a dream she had when she was young. A dream to be an explorer, to discover hidden places and forgotten magic. But life had gotten in the way, as it often does.

“I’m so so